Not that I know even a smigeon about what is going on, but I couldn't help myself noting you make use of something a lot of people lack, which is common sense. This actually goes a bit further back than when I friended you, but that's a really short story for another time. So, if it were up to me, I'd say you didn't do the wrong thing.

I just hope this ends as well as possible for you. There's not a lot more I can say without sounding like I'm fudging consolations.